I am a big fan of rose-coloured glasses. I prefer to call it an optimistic POV.
I am also a big fan of positive memories from which I believe we find inspiration when times are low.
My grandsons are growing up, as I may have mentioned one or two or a million times.
I had gotten to thinking about mortality lately. Mine, specifically, and I asked myself what words of wisdom I would leave for them, and pretty much came to the conclusion I had no wisdom to impart. At least, none I could think of in the moment.
Then I came up with an idea.

So I had a few photos mounted on a light board they could hang on a wall. Wrote the blurb below and mailed off the package to them today.
With the note below
I hope you will hang this on your wall,
And when you are feeling down,
And life is hard, as it often is
Look at the pictures for a moment or two
Look at the pure joy,
Close your eyes,
And remember how it felt
And breathe
And for a moment
Let that pure joy
Lift you up and make you strong,
I will love you always and unconditionally
LOVE, YOUR GRANDMA AND GREATEST FAN
So, from North of 43, I hope if your day is low you can conjure up a memory or look at a picture of a blissful time and remember how it felt. It works.

THIS is a perfect gift. Maybe it isn’t wisdom we’re supposed to give them. But love, support and no matter what, no matter where they go, they know without one second of doubt, that to someone they were everything. They are loved. Loved. Loved. Beautiful Chris.
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Thank you Colleen. I think I have discovered that newer generations have no interest in my wisdom. It seems life might be all about gaining ones own wisdom.But I think everybody loves to feel loved.
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That is wisdom right there. And beautifully said.
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Say, that might be an interesting post, are you wise if you realize you have no wisdom? Interesting
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Very interesting! What a twister of a post that could be!
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I agree. It’s such a touching gift, reading it brought tears to my eyes. And I think it’s both: a perfect gift and much wisdom about life itself. It reminded me of Oliver Wendell Holmes’s words: “Youth fades; love droops; the leaves of friendship fall; a [grand]mother’s secret hope outlives them all.” Or like Colleen said, your words words will stay with them and warm their hearts when they need it most. Beautiful and beautifully put. Thank you so much for sharing it.
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Thank you for your kind comments.
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What a sweet gift 🎁
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Thank you a pretty simple gift but sent from the heart.
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My favorite kind!
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My happy place is looking into my wife’s eyes on our wedding day 😁
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That’s perfect! I should’ve called it my happy place. Good for you.
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A perfect gift Chris. I am sure they will cherish this for ever. I’ve re-blog this on growing younger
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A pretty simple gift Judith but sent from the heart.
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Reblogged this on I choose how I will spend the rest of my life and commented:
Great ideas from Chris
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Thanks Judith!
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What was their response?
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I just mailed it to them yesterday granny they should get it next week sometime.
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Perfect! I love this idea. You are the best grandmother!
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With those glasses on Darlene I am!
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💗
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